| 7 Laws to Attract the Person You Love | 4:32 AM |
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Do you wish to attract someone to yourself? Is there a man or a woman that you like and want them to fall head over heels for you? If yes is your answer, then the seven principles of attraction is your key to success. The seven principles of attraction are seven simple ways that will help you grab anybody’s attention and master the art of attraction.
Rule 1- Hide and Seek
If you want a person, never run after them. The more you chase them, the farther they will go away from you. Approach them, let them know that you like them but do not show them how much you want them. More often than not, strong emotions scare away people.
Rule 2- Play hard
Sometimes
Playing hard to get works well. Love, in its initial stage is like a run and chase game and the chase is always the most fun part. The more you run away from a person, more curious he will be to catch you and find out the reason behind your running away from them. Men like women who are hard to get and women find those men interesting who have the potential and confidence to turn them down.
Rule 3- Move slow
Once, you get to know the person; do not be all over them. Make sure that you move cautiously and slowly into the relationship. Take your time and let the other person take their time to understand and comprehend things. Sometimes, moving too swiftly can mess things up.
Rule 4- Be on your best behavior
While trying to woo someone, be on your best behavior always. Some people say that love is blind but when attraction is involved, everybody gets an extra pair of eyes. Thus, wear your best clothes, best manners and put on your most charming manners. It will help, certainly.
Rule 5- Air of Mystery
Never reveal your true self. Mystery is an important element of attraction. A person will most certainly stay attracted to you till the time he/she doesn’t completely understand you. Every time you do something which surprises them, they will run after you to understand you better.
Rule 6- Shower compliments
Be generous with compliments. Every person likes to be praised and be around people who like them. Thus, if you want to attract someone, make sure that you compliment them. However, make sure that your compliments do not come across as flattery.
Rule 7- Pinch of jealousy
A little jealousy can really help you in getting a person attracted to you. When you shower all your attention on one person and suddenly, you divert your attention from that one person to another, they will become jealous and would want to restore their position as the most important person in your life. Thus, they will begin to run after you.
The seven laws of attraction, if used correctly can really help you in getting that special someone attracted to you within days.
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| 7 dating rules you must follow | 11:01 AM |
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Here are seven dating (not) rules you should actually follow:
1.Contact your date when you feel like talking to them.There's nothing wrong with contacting someone you've gone out with when the mood strikes. (Though if you feel the need to be calling someone every hour, on the hour, there might be an issue.)
2.Don't play the "wait for the other person to make the first move" game.It will probably just make you miserable and neither of you will ever make a move. If you are a reasonably perceptive person, you should be able to tell when someone is interested in you and act accordingly.
3.A date isn't a job interview,so try not to act like it is. Don't interrogate your date, put them on the spot, or make them feel like you're judging them. Instead, try to listen to what they have to say and decide whether their thoughts are compatible with yours.
4.If you disagree with something your date says, express your opinion.There's no point of keeping quiet because you think it will make someone like you more. It is only guaranteed to make things worse down the road.
5.Try not to think of certain topics as "taboo."If big things like politics and religion are important to you and are subjects that you're naturally inclined to talk about, why not bring them up?
6.It's fine to have dealbreakers.Everyone does, and you shouldn't feel guilty about them. It's always better to know what yours are and own them.
7.Remember that the only thing you can control in a relationship is yourself.Period.
The rules of dating should pretty much be limited to the rules of common courtesy, sense and respect. Waiting three days to call may no longer be relevant to your dating life, but being aware of your own needs always will be.
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| 4 Body Language "Tricks" When Approaching Women | 5:29 AM |
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The way you approach a woman is the MOST important
step towards attracting her.
If you can demonstrate the right kind of qualities
when you initiate a conversation, then it's easy
to make her interested.
As humans, we make instant judgments about people
within the first couple seconds of meeting them.
This means if you want to attract a woman, you
have to ensure that you're displaying the right
kind of body language on your approach.
Most guys make the mistake of giving off POOR body
language when initiating conversations with girls.
Whether they act too intimidating or behave in a
wussy manner, most men are sending the WRONG body
language signals to women.
So if you're having trouble with attracting women
when you first meet them, then you should take a
look at your body language.
Here is a quick FOUR step system for displaying
attractive body language to women:
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1 - Be friendly
When you approach a woman, lock eyes on her and
smile.
Your goal is to give off a warm and friendly
personality with your approach.
In other words, you want to approach her like a
long lost friend.
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2 - Display energy and enthusiasm
Most guys start a conversation with sullen or
scared looks on their faces.
Trust me...this is one of the worst things you
can do.
You want to be thought of as a fun, interesting
guy.
So it's important show lot's of energy when
approaching women.
Remember...enthusiasm is contagious. If you act
like you're having a great time, this energy
will naturally rub off on her.
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3 - Don't face her head on
When you initiate a conversation, you want to
put her at ease.
The best way to do this is to avoid directly
facing a woman.
One of the principles of body language is we
tend to be uncomfortable by people who directly
face us.
So don't be positioned right in front of her.
Instead approach her to the side.
If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle,
you'll reduce a lot of the nervousness and
tension.
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4 - Be relaxed
Once you've approached the woman you should
strike a relaxed pose.
In order to appear confident, you have to give
off the appearance that you're not anxious or
worried about the outcome of your conversation.
By displaying a relaxed posture (like leaning
back), you're showing her that she's in the
presence of a confident male.
If you use this four part body language system
on your approach, you'll increase your chances
of developing a successful conversation.
Then it'll be easy to quickly develop rapport a
nd make things more intimate.
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Finally, approaching is the BIGGEST obstacle
guys have when it comes to women.
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