| 5 Sex Secrets She Wants YOU To Know | 10:51 AM |
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It's a common experience to feel a lack of sexual confidence around women.
When you're not sure what to do to satisfy her, you'll end up projecting a nervous attitude towards sex.
But while lots of guys experience some form of anxiety you CANNOT let this affect your performance in the bedroom. It's important to understand what pleases women and then DO it. Only then will you be able to display an unstoppable amount of sexual confidence. And here are a few ways to make an improvement in this area...
Tip #1- Maintain a relaxed attitude
The quickest way to become anxious about sex is to get all "worked up" before doing in the deed. When you act this way, you'll end up making her share these nervous feelings. As a result, she'll be turned off by your low self-esteem.
Instead of being nervous about sex, you should remind yourself that it's a completely natural part of relationship. Even if something bad happens, learn to roll with the punches and maintain composure. In other words, stay RELAXED!
Tip #2- Understand sexuality
One of the best ways to become a sexually confident guy is to understand what really pleases a woman. If you understand how to give women pleasure then you'll discover it's easy to be a great lover. The best way to do this is experiment with the following
** Oral sex
** Locating the G-Spot
** Teasing and being seductive
** Building anticipation for "the main event"
Take time here and she'll really enjoy the experience.
Tip #3- Delay your gratification
As you've probably realize, your sexual confidence stems from being able to please a woman. When you can please a woman any time and any place, you'll project an authoritative aura to those around you. And one of the best ways to demonstrate this quality is to delay your own pleasure during sex. If you provide multiple orgasms to a woman before taking care of yourself, you'll transform into a seductive lover.
Tip #4- Be aggressive not timid
Many guys have low self esteem in the bedroom because they're afraid to take initiative.
Believe me- Women WANT you to take control when you're in the bedroom. Once you understand how to give women pleasure, be the one to be aggressive and give her what she wants. Women are turned on by many things. Primarily, they LOVE a guy who acts like he can barely control himself when being intimate.
Tip #5- Understand her needs
Women are strange creatures. While you might encounter some that know what they want, most women won't provide a clue about their needs. So it's up to you to do some exploration and figure out what pleases her. By experimenting with various techniques, you'll eventually encounter the things which drive her crazy with passion.
Then it's up to you to give this every time you have sex.
Sexual confidence comes down to understanding women and being able to discover what pleases them.
If you follow the five steps I just discuss you'll be on your way towards becoming a sexually confident lover!
Keep it real
X.A
| What Women Want (with a guy's "look") | 4:57 AM |
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My goal was to find the things that they all agreed on.
The results were surprising, because the issues the women had the strongest opinions about were ones that most guys would never think of.
YOUR TEETH
agreement of the others.
So in order to not have your teeth immediately disqualify you, keep them brushed twice a day, flossing at least once. And if they're rotten or badly stained, see your dentist ASAP.
However, don't go crazy with the teeth whitener. "No one wants to kiss Chiclet Mouth," added the blonde.
YOUR HANDS
Women notice right off the bat if your hands are covered with dirt or grease."If you work with your hands," said one woman, "that's not the first thing a woman should notice a
bout you." So auto mechanics, construction workers, and other
blue collar types, listen up.
"It's not what a person does," explained another chick. "It's just about taking care of yourself. If you can't even wash your hands, what does that say about you?"
YOUR CLOTHES
"I am a believer that athletic gear is for exercise," said a part-time model in her mid-20s. "Some boys wear only tennis shoes and that's just annoying.
It shows immaturity." Good shoes instead are loafers or boots.
Try to be neat without being anal. "You should not look sloppy," said the blonde, "but don't look so put together that you appear obsessive-compulsive."
And, be an individual, agreed the women. If you've got that one shirt that only you love, you should still wear it, even if it is somewhat "uncool."
For example, take a hawaiian shirt with a flamingo on it. Some guy who absolutely loves it canwear thatshirt.
So the bottom line is that a few guys can indeed pull off wearing the tennis shoes.
Sound confusing?
It isn't once you realize that the simple test is this:
Are you wearing clothes that display your core personality?
As one woman explained it, "You should be comfortable with what you're wearing and like what you're wearing, because women will pick up on that."
So in other words, the perfect style for you comes down to personal preferences and your individual sense of style.
Keep it real
X.A