| The Top 4 Ways to Maximize Your Assets | 2:29 AM |
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They say pimpin' ain't easy...well it ain't cheap either. If you want to spread your love all over town, get ready to spread your wallet all over town, too.
As you bounce around your city's nightlife, set up dates, and woo some awesome ladies, you're going to learn that the best things experiences in life are not free. Forget keeping up with the Joneses--worry about keeping up with Cupid.
But fear not nascent ladies' man, I feel your fiscal pain. My hard-earned dollars once flew out of my hands too as I learned to navigate the turbulent terrain of modern dating. After one too many mornings of
waking up next to beautiful a woman ... and a bouquet of crumpled ATM receipts ... I discovered a few secrets to minimize cost while maximizing gains. Here's a top 4 list that would please both Don Juan and Gordon Gekko...
Number 4: Learn to Cook Just 3 Dishes
The secret skill to an amazing cheap date is three simple words: learn to cook. The lost art of cooking is such a simple and effective way to hook-up with babes, I included a recipe in "The 4 Elements of Game."
Most guys shy away from cook because they're intimidated by being awesome; although, nothing is easier than learning 3 simple dishes to cook for a nice candlelit dinner. My 3 go-to meals are:
1. Lemon braised chicken cooked in white wine
2. Pan seared mustard-crusted salmon
3. Mussels served in creamy white broth
Home-cooked dinner dates cost no more than 10-15 bucks and are the most effective way to wow a woman.
Number 3: Your Place = Hottest Club in Town
If your apartment isn't a cooler place to hang out than any bar or nightclub in town, you're not harnessing your most obvious asset. Chances are, you'll seduce very few women while out on the town; yet, so few guys think to make "the club" their house or apartment.
If you stock your place with cool games, activities, drinks, vices, and toys, there will be no reason to stay in some over-crowded nightclub when you and your girl could you "poppin' bottles" at your Members-only Club. Some awesome things you'll find at "Club Rob" are:
1. A French wine "collection" (actually a bunch of 4 dollars bottles of wine in a Target wine rack
2. A hookah pipe
3. Blender and margarita ingredients
4. World-class DJ (my iTunes mix)
Number 2: Find Offbeat Activities and Make them Awesome
Guys who spend too much money on dates can chalk up their wastrel ways to paying an "uncreative tax." If you apply a little creativity to the stuff to do in your neighborhood, you can find awesome activities for you and a new lady friend.
Case-in-point, near me there's a tram that transports commuters to a small island across the river. Most people would just regard this as "mass transit," but I claim it's a "sightseeing tour to an exotic land."
If you can make something mundane sound totally awesome and fun, you create memorable activities out of very ordinary (and cheap!) activities. So keep your eyes peeled and your creativity inspired.
Number 1: Barter with Other Guys
Most guys whine over the costs of transportation to a nightclubs or how they hate paying cover admission to a hot venue. These whiners don't realize that they can barter with other guys to offset these costs.
In every city, there are guys who want to improve their success with women, but want a mentor. Even if you're not an expert yet, you can still offer these guys motivation or incentive to go out and approach women.
Keep it real
X.A
| The Question that Gets You Rejected Every Time | 9:22 AM |
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Hey, what's up?
Naturally, this acquainted me with the cold, harsh world of rejection before I'd stopped believing in the Tooth Fairy. I may have loved women my entire life, but the feeling certainly wasn't always mutual. It wasn't until I realized that girls rejecting me had nothing to do with the girls themselves, but instead everything to do with how I thought about the girls.
It all boiled down to a single question. A toxic, 6-word question that often appeared in my mind--either consciously or unconsciously--acted like a malignant tumor to whatever attraction a girl might have felt for me.
Once I identified the question, and decided to never again ask it, I delivered myself from that cold, harsh world of rejection. And I promise you, most of your rejections also stem from this one voodoo-spell of a question. But before we talk about that, be my Jiminy Cricket for a moment and sit on my shoulder as I kick some game to one of the hottest girls I'd ever seen...
So the year is 2007 and I'm peacocked out, locked in, and disqualifying an absolutely stunning blonde at a swanky hotel bar in New York City. The pickup is unfolding like a field report inspired by Homer--this girl is Helen of Troy hot and her interest in me is epic. Everything was going so well--and so quickly--that I hardly had a chance to take note...
...one moment I was asking for her opinion on something, the next her hand was pressed passionately against my chest, her finger aimlessly twirling a strand of her perfect blonde hair, as she asked for my name, asked if I had a girlfriend, asked all the questions that have no significance other than to signify attraction...
I continued to run game proper on her, until she looked at me with a smile, reached into her purse to get her wallet, and said, "Let me buy you a drink, what do you want?"
Now, you're on my shoulder. You hear her ask this. You're my Jiminy Cricket, my conscience. How would you advise me to proceed? (Keep in mind, my mouth is parched and there's nothing in the world I'd love more than a cold Blue Moon draft with an orange garnish.) Do I take the drink, or do I refuse? The question sounds asinine and the answer seems obvious, but what would you advise me to do?
Oh, and if you haven't realized, this has nothing to do with the actual drink, yet everything to do with what the drink implies.
So what's your advice, Jiminy? Because I'll tell you what actually happened, what I did back in 2007. I refused. Sheepishly, I glanced toward the floor, smiled an embarrassed smile, and mumbled, "No, that's okay."
"But I want to buy you a drink," she insisted. "What do you want?"
For a moment I reconsidered. There was nothing in the world I would've loved more at that moment than a cold Blue Moon draft with an orange garnish to accompany this Homeric pickup moment, yet I backed away from her. I threw my hands up in protest. And I said, "No, really. The drinks are expensive here. You don't have to do that."
Minutes later, her white-hot attraction had cooled to an icy, "I'm gonna get back to my friends...nice meeting you though!" And I watched yet another hot girl walk out of my life--a trend I'd known as long as I'd believed in the Tooth Fairy. Learning "game" may have prolonged the cold, harsh world of rejection--but it didn't deliver me from it.
That's because it doesn't matter how much game you have, or how good you look, or how much money's in your bank account, or even how much of a celebrity you are...if 6 little words creep into your head followed by a question mark, it's over. It's like detonating a dirty bomb during a pickup--there will be no survivors.
If you haven't guessed, that little lethal question is, "Why do I deserve this girl?" Until a few years ago, I couldn't help but ask myself that question. It crept into my mind, regardless of the caliber of game I was kicking. Though, it never presented itself outright. Instead the question seeped into my mind insidiously, and then manifested itself during an offbeat moment, such as when a beautiful girl would offer to buy me a drink.
Maybe you can relate. Perhaps you also know that during that split second, when her offer hangs in the air, if you ask yourself, "Why do I deserve this girl?" you're essentially shooting yourself in the dick. What you probably don't know, however, is there's a simple cure. By just identifying the question, you can stop yourself from asking it. (Aren't you glad you read this article?!) That's because you'll find an answer before the girl's ever in front of you.
The answer isn't because you have great game, or a fresh new haircut, or even a shiny red Corvette; the answer is because you know the life experience and good emotions you have to offer someone. You know what you've been through, what you've seen, and what you know. And if that doesn't answer why you deserve this girl, then you shouldn't be looking to piece together your game--you should be piecing together your life.
Once you have it pieced together, then loving hot girls will only result in them loving you back. No longer will you feel the chill of cold, harsh rejection. Instead you'll enjoy that Blue Moon draft with a girl whose beauty rivals Helen, as I take the form of Jiminy Cricket and do a little celebratory breakdance on your shoulder because that toxic, 6-word question never once crossed your mind. You DO deserve that girl.
To change a lifetime of bad habits when it comes to attracting hot women, you have to adjust your mindsets before anything else. By adopting a powerful outlook on the world, your presence will magnetize women without much work and effort. Rob's eBook, The 4 Elements of Game, has helped thousands of men worldwide accomplish exactly that. To learn more check out:
To your Success,
| Things men should never ask a woman | 3:46 AM |
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An author has come up with a list of 10 top dating tips to guide men on what they should never say to women.
David DeAngelo, author of ' Double Your Dating ,' says there is nothing worse than making mistakes that will later be regretted and one way to avoid them is to remember the following, Bullz-Eye.com reported.
First of all, a man should never ask a woman if he can kiss her, as she will only say, a man should never "ask" for a kiss.
Asking her for a kiss will only make a man look like a boy, which is what a woman is not interested in, and even if she says "yes", it could mean she is just being polite, while on the inside her attraction meter will read a firm, "No".
Secondly, a man should never ask a woman if he can take her out on a date sometime, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her.
A man should confidently ask a woman out, by simply saying, "We should hang out... what's your number?" or tell her about a specific place he wants to take her to.
Thirdly, a man should never brag about the car he has or the kind of house he lives in, as it would seem like he is trying hard to impress her.
Women would be far more impressed by a man's material possessions if he does not mention them in conversation.
The fourth thing a man should never ask a woman is what she wants to do for the night, as she likes a "man with a plan".
The man needs to have a game plan before he calls her, so as to ensure that she will not be burdened with having to think about what to do.
Fifthly, a man should never ask a woman if she likes him, as this is one phrase that turns off a woman completely.
He should just assume that she likes him, and never ask the question, as it would look like he has no confidence.
The sixth tip is that a man should never ask a woman why she never answered his message, as one, it would show that he cared she did not reply back, and two, it would give her a guilt trip, which is seen as insecurity by women.
The seventh tip is that a man should never ask a woman how men she has slept with, as this shows that he is suffering from insecurity.
The eighth tip is that a man should never hint at a future date with a woman he has just met, as she not only wants but needs a guy who is somewhat of a "challenge", and will lose interest if she senses she has won.
The ninth tip is that a man should never end a phone conversation with a woman with a "next step", as firstly it would kill any spontaneity by being predictable, and secondly he would kill any chances of her calling him.
The tenth tip is that a man should never talk bad about a woman's guy friends especially if he hasn't met them and doesn't know her very well, as this is the fastest way for her to mark him as "insecure."
David DeAngelo, author of ' Double Your Dating ,' says there is nothing worse than making mistakes that will later be regretted and one way to avoid them is to remember the following, Bullz-Eye.com reported.
First of all, a man should never ask a woman if he can kiss her, as she will only say, a man should never "ask" for a kiss.
Asking her for a kiss will only make a man look like a boy, which is what a woman is not interested in, and even if she says "yes", it could mean she is just being polite, while on the inside her attraction meter will read a firm, "No".
Secondly, a man should never ask a woman if he can take her out on a date sometime, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her.
A man should confidently ask a woman out, by simply saying, "We should hang out... what's your number?" or tell her about a specific place he wants to take her to.
Thirdly, a man should never brag about the car he has or the kind of house he lives in, as it would seem like he is trying hard to impress her.
Women would be far more impressed by a man's material possessions if he does not mention them in conversation.
The fourth thing a man should never ask a woman is what she wants to do for the night, as she likes a "man with a plan".
The man needs to have a game plan before he calls her, so as to ensure that she will not be burdened with having to think about what to do.
Fifthly, a man should never ask a woman if she likes him, as this is one phrase that turns off a woman completely.He should just assume that she likes him, and never ask the question, as it would look like he has no confidence.
The sixth tip is that a man should never ask a woman why she never answered his message, as one, it would show that he cared she did not reply back, and two, it would give her a guilt trip, which is seen as insecurity by women.
The seventh tip is that a man should never ask a woman how men she has slept with, as this shows that he is suffering from insecurity.
The eighth tip is that a man should never hint at a future date with a woman he has just met, as she not only wants but needs a guy who is somewhat of a "challenge", and will lose interest if she senses she has won.
The ninth tip is that a man should never end a phone conversation with a woman with a "next step", as firstly it would kill any spontaneity by being predictable, and secondly he would kill any chances of her calling him.
The tenth tip is that a man should never talk bad about a woman's guy friends especially if he hasn't met them and doesn't know her very well, as this is the fastest way for her to mark him as "insecure."
| 5 Ways To Make Women Fall In Love With You | 10:29 AM |
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Getting women to fall for you is not as hard as it may seem. Making women feel a deep attraction to you doesn’t require expensive gifts, extravagant gestures or rock hard abs.
In
fact, all it really requires is a little charm and a few good manners.
Mastering the following 5 qualities will set you on your way to becoming
the man women will be fighting for.
One
of the worst mistakes a man can make is being insecure, desperate and
intimidated-constantly seeking a woman’s approval. Women want the ideal
man who is confident, self-sufficient and respectable. When you display
these traits, along with maintaining strong eye contact, good posture
and slow body gestures and movements, most women will take notice of
you.
2. Learn to dress smarter
The first impression matters a lot and how you dress is a big part of the impression you create. Just like women use make-up to appear prettier than they really are, men can improve their appearance through their style of dress. Keeping yourself up and adapting a style that suits you sends the message that you know how to dress, you’re unique, interesting, mature and successful. Most women love clean, well-groomed and stylishly dressed men because it shows that you are organized and can take care of yourself.
The first impression matters a lot and how you dress is a big part of the impression you create. Just like women use make-up to appear prettier than they really are, men can improve their appearance through their style of dress. Keeping yourself up and adapting a style that suits you sends the message that you know how to dress, you’re unique, interesting, mature and successful. Most women love clean, well-groomed and stylishly dressed men because it shows that you are organized and can take care of yourself.
3. Make friends with women
Keeping friendships with women is one of the best strategies for consistently meeting women. In fact, making female friends can lead to you being introduced to lots of available women and will help you get over any anxiety you may have of approaching women. Women will more often talk to men who are with other women, so by keep these friendships intact, you’ll make HUGE headway in becoming the high-status guy women can’t get enough of.
Keeping friendships with women is one of the best strategies for consistently meeting women. In fact, making female friends can lead to you being introduced to lots of available women and will help you get over any anxiety you may have of approaching women. Women will more often talk to men who are with other women, so by keep these friendships intact, you’ll make HUGE headway in becoming the high-status guy women can’t get enough of.
4. Give them genuine compliments
Learning to fulfill a woman’s craving for compliments will definitely set you apart from other men; however, most men mess it up and end up sitting alone at the bar. To compliment women the right way, the most important thing to remember is not what you say, but how you say it. Focus on the their values and what they deem important. Give compliments with a confident voice tone and a smile on your face and never underestimate the importance of eye contact.
Learning to fulfill a woman’s craving for compliments will definitely set you apart from other men; however, most men mess it up and end up sitting alone at the bar. To compliment women the right way, the most important thing to remember is not what you say, but how you say it. Focus on the their values and what they deem important. Give compliments with a confident voice tone and a smile on your face and never underestimate the importance of eye contact.
5. Let them chase you
Quickly pursuing attractive women can often cause them to run away from you. Instead, stop chasing women and make them pursue you. Doing this will set you up as a challenge in their minds and cause them to be MORE LIKELY to want to be with you in a romantic way.
Quickly pursuing attractive women can often cause them to run away from you. Instead, stop chasing women and make them pursue you. Doing this will set you up as a challenge in their minds and cause them to be MORE LIKELY to want to be with you in a romantic way.
Keep it real
X.A
| 1000 yeah old attraction secret | 8:06 AM |
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Today I want to talk about a character trait
that's been attracting desirable women for
THOUSANDS of years.
This is another quality that'll make you more
NATURALLY attractive to women.
What is this trait?
It's a simple principle ~~>
Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower
Women want men to act like men, and part of
displaying your masculinity is to display courage
and confidence.
With that said, YOU have to be the one to take
things to the next level.
This means that YOU be the one to take the
initiative.
Be the one to ask her out.
Make the first move.
And act like a man who is not afraid to take
things to the next level.
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Besides being the one responsible for progressing
the relationship, a man also has to put effort
into keeping it alive.
One of the harsh realities of dating is that
women get bored...
REALLY quickly.
If you're not providing a fun, exciting experience,
then you run the risk of forcing her to find a
guy who will!
A lot of times, women will settle when it comes
time to pick a romantic partner.
Usually, this comes from a fear of being alone or
not finding a comfortable relationship.
The problem is, while they're in a stable
situation, most women secretly yearn for the guy
who can provide them with a bit of excitement.
Someone who acts like a "leader of men."
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Women want a guy who is not afraid to take action.
This is a quality that stems from the way we
evolved as human beings.
The "leaders of men" were often the most
sexually desirable.
When a woman would select a mating partner, she
would inevitably gravitate towards the guys who
were a cut above the rest... the leaders.
So what draws a woman to a leader of a group?
Most of the time, this type of guy wasn't the
smartest, best looking, or even the toughest, but
the leader did have one quality...
He could control the actions of other men.
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So how do you display the leadership quality?
The best way to demonstrate this trait is
through your actions.
With women, you can't tell them that you're a
leader - you have to show it through the things
that you do.
...
First off, this quality is illustrated clearly
through the way
YOU make decisions.
Whereas the inferior male waffles in his choices,
the leader in charge is decisive.
He's able to quickly access a situation and make
an instant decision.
In order to "stand out from the crowd," you should
make decisive choices and have the confidence to
stick by them.
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Another way to show leadership is through the
way you handle social interactions.
The leader is somebody who can control a
conversation, but ensures that everyone is included.
Furthermore, a guy like this is somebody who enjoys
planning an activity or taking charge of an event.
Instead of allowing others to make decisions, the
leader is the one who everyone looks to for good
times or excitement.
In essence, he's the focal point of any interaction!
...
Finally, you can identify a leader by his body
language.
In a social interaction, he's somebody who:
*** Makes strong eye contact with everyone
*** Is the center of a conversation
*** Moves at the front of the pack as a group travels
*** Seems relaxed and casual
*** Tells interesting stories that captivate everyone's
attention
As you can see, there are a lot of qualities and
traits that capture the essence of a leader.
The important thing to remember is that you should
always be the person who is in charge of your social
circle.
...
Don't rely on others to take charge.
Instead, be the guy who everyone looks to for an
exciting experience.
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