| What Women REALLY Think About You... | 8:10 AM |
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Frankly, women can be REALLY puzzling.
Case in point, have you EVER thought any of the
following:
** Why won't she return my phone calls?
** Why did she agree to a date, but cancel at the
last minute?
** Why does she flirt, but get annoyed when I make
a move?
** Why does she complain about the guys she dates,
but doesn't want a nice guy?
Sometimes women are just plain ole FRUSTRATING!
They seem to take great pleasure by saying ONE
thing then turning around and doing the EXACT
opposite.
And this is even MORE annoying when we think we're
starting to finally understand them.
.
Here's an example of WHY women can be frustrating
to a lot of guys.
A few months back, my buddy Mike was complaining
about a girl he recently met.
From what he told me, she showed all the OBVIOUS
signs of interest:
* SHE approached him
* SHE flirted
* SHE continued the conversation
* SHE asked for the date
So what happened?
At the last minute this girl called up and
canceled the date.
After that, she wouldn't return Mike's phone calls
OR text messages.
Mike told me this story in the hopes that I had
some advice on the matter.
And all I could do was shrug my shoulders and
say...
"Women...who knows WHAT goes on in their heads!"
I felt bad that I couldn't really give any advice
to Mike.
I KNEW he did everything right.
Since she was showing OBVIOUS signs of interest,
I was a little baffled as to why this girl
flaked out.
Now I'll be the first to say that you never
REALLY know when a woman is going to do something
flaky.
You could be having the BEST time with a woman,
but suddenly a magical 'switch' will go off and
she'll do something completely BIZARRE!
.
So I ask the question- "What goes through the
minds of women when they meet a guy?"
Well from what I've experienced, the MAJOR
difference between the sexes really boils down
to ONE thing:
<<<<OUR VIEWPOINTS OF EVERY SITUATION>>>>
Typically a guy uses LOGIC to make his
decisions.
Example: "A girl is flirting with me. She MUST
be interested!"
On the other hand, women use EMOTIONS to
decipher a situation.
Example: "He's interested, but does he REALLY
like me. Let's do a test to find out..."
And YES, women DO test you. More than you
could possibly imagine.
When I think about Mike's situation in hindsight,
I realized that he didn't recognize a test at some
point during their conversation.
This girl WAS interested when they first met.
But she probably gave a few tests that Mike didn't
pick up...AND he failed!
The truth is almost EVERY woman you meet will do
some type of mind game to judge your reaction.
They simply CAN'T help it.
Many women play mind games because of a specific
EMOTIONAL reaction they're trying to create in
THEMSELVES or in YOU.
For instance if a woman is flirting without
wanting to "hook up," she's probably wants to feel
sexy by having guys hit on her.
OR:
If a woman doesn't return your call, it's probably
because you didn't build up an emotional connection
when your first met.
OR EVEN BETTER:
When a girl cancels your date, she's trying to
create a situation where she's in the power position.
In other words, this girl wants to see how much she
can dominate your actions and turn you into the
pursuer.
.
How can you stop this from happening?
Honestly, that's a hard one to answer.
Some girls simply don't
know what they want. Others ONLY date guys who pass
their tests.
AND a few simply like the feeling of having POWER
over guys.
To prevent this from happening to YOU, it's
important to do the following:
1) Understand what motivates the different women
you meet
2) Identify the moments when they're testing you
3) IMMEDIATELY challenge a girl when she starts
acting like a flake.
You really can't control the actions of women.
But you CAN make them understand that you're the
type of guy who doesn't deal with ANY form of B.S.
in your dating life.
You'll find that DIRECTLY challenging a woman is
one of the best ways to eliminate their flaky
behavior which can save a TON of problems down the
road.
Finally, the FIRST way to prevent a flaky girl is
to hook her interest from the START.
The way to do this is show a DOMINANT
male attitude.
One that'll blast through her general flakiness
and make her WANT to be with you.
KEEP IT REAL
X.A
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