Okay, so you've finally found a woman who really gets your juices flowing, and you've already done the nasty, but now you're worried about screwing the whole thing up.

Obviously she's attracted to you or you wouldn't be dipping into her honey pot in the first place, but how do you keep the attraction flowing? How can you keep her happy and satisfied and out of the arms of all the other guys out there who might have better relationship skills than you do? Are there any ways to ensure -- or better yet, increase -- her desire to be with you?

Fortunately, there are. Here's a list of some things to keep in mind as you're trying to make the relationship work.

1- Keep your attitude in shape Remember; you're the catch, not her. Your attitude should be that you're doing her a favor by letting her into your life, not to mention letting her have sex with you (this is always done without cockiness or arrogance). Women love confidence in men and broadcasting this kind of self-image will boost her attraction to you.

2- Always keep her guessing Make sure that you maintain contact with other women (especially good-looking women). This doesn't mean that you should cheat on her, but that you should cultivate lots of female friends and turn on the charm with other women.

When you do this, she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time. Most women are irrationally jealous creatures, so when you have a flock of lovelies orbiting you, it will fan the flames of her desire and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away.

3- Don't get sloppy Let's be honest; when you're first dating a woman, you're trying hard to impress. The typical guy will buy new clothes, shine his shoes, and keep the car slick and gleaming. But after a while -- after you start to feel comfortable -- all this goes out the window.

You trade your Pierre Cardin in for a stained T-shirt, you've got dried mud on your Reeboks, and the backseat of your car looks like an open dumpster. Don't do this. Women are obsessed with clothing and their appearance, and will instantly switch off their sex drive if you look like a slob.

Visit the gym once in a while, too, and don't forget to take a shower when you leave. A sweaty guy with a Jell-O gut and a double chin is not likely to inspire lust in his woman.

Keep your life, don't live in hers
4- Keep your own life
Women are so good at taking over men's lives that a lot of guys just give up on who they really are as soon as the girlfriend starts cracking the whip. Instead of playing ball and drinking beer, all of a sudden, it's antique shopping and sitting through chick flicks.

It's extremely important that you keep doing the masculine stuff that you like -- sports, motorcycles, hanging out with your buddies -- to keep balance in the relationship and to keep yourself from turning into a castrated wussy.

Remember; women always want everything both ways -- they want you to be intensely masculine, but at the same time they expect you to cater to them because they hold the sexual trump card.

But once you roll over and turn into a doormat, a woman will lose all attraction for you. So get your mind off getting laid and concentrate instead on asserting your masculinity. By going in your own positive direction, by doing things that are important to you, and by being a guy , she will see you as an independent, interesting and attractive man.

5- Don't put up with female crap Women will test you mercilessly to see how much of a wuss-boy you are, to see how much of their bad behavior you'll tolerate. This is nothing but pure manipulation, and every single one of them is guilty of it. Don't fall for it.

Put your foot down right away. If you let a woman get away with an inch, she'll take a hundred miles, and she'll lose respect for you as a man. Once she does that, her interest in you as a lover will plummet to zero.

You'll notice she doesn't act this way around her girlfriends (because she can't manipulate them with sex), so don't let her get away with doing it around you. Anytime you "Yes, dear," you're killing off attraction.

6- Turn on your seduction skills
Part of what got you two into the sack in the first place was your ability to charm -- to overcome female objections. This is what seduction is all about -- creating an atmosphere in which a woman will be willing to let down her guards on her "virtue."

The problem is, many guys are only into the conquest -- as soon as they storm the castle, they lose interest in continuing the battle. Or they just get bored.

But women love to be seduced -- it's part of their sexual power over a man and it makes them feel wanted. So if you'd like her to stick around for a while, make sure she knows that she still turns you on by -- literally -- charming the pants off her.

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