Success [5 Fashion Laws]

Hey, what's going on?
I have some bad news and I have...some really bad news.
The bad news is that I only get asked once or twice a month for fashion tips. That greatly outnumbers the number of times a month I'm asked about getting a 15 second make out with a girl you just met...you get the points.
 Guys just don't seem to care how they're dressed, or they don't even consider how it's affecting their success with women.
But, now on to the *REALLY* bad news. Every night I go out, I see dozens of guys dressed in a way that's...absolutely horrible. I'm sorry, but there's no nice way to describe how most guys dress.
And why should we be nice about this? Changing your outfit only takes a few minutes, but it can have a DRAMATIC impact on the success with have with women.
And that's why today's post will focus on...
Fashion.
I know, I know. For some of you, seeing that word probably inspired some grumbling and eye rolls. Just bear with me. And for some other guys out there reading, you might truly believe that you're dressing well--even though you're not.
So, today I want to offer *VITAL* men's fashion laws. Most guys could at least benefit from one--if not all--of the simple tips I'm going to outline.
Keep in mind, I'm no Versaci myself, but I do have an attentive eye on the way men dress (as it relates to attracting women). I'm less concerned with the hottest fall colors than I am with just getting you to look good.
So these tips, while simple, can be regarded as the "men's fashion laws" for looking attractive. No matter what season, no matter what style, following these guidelines will keep you looking your absolute best.
1. Layering
If you want an eye-catching outfit without resorting to "peacocking" then develop an eye for detail and combinations. Nothing expresses your personality better than 2 or 3 layers of carefully coordinated clothes.
I still stand by my own all-time favorite 3 piece sexy casual combination: 
1.) button-down shirt, 
2.) light, zip-up hoodie, 
3.) sports coat.
Just mix and match whites, blacks, and grays to create an interesting outfit (without coming off try-hard).
Here's an example:

There are three major mistakes most guys make when sending a woman an text message 1. The first message they send doesn't stand out or introduce any element of their personality. Here is a fact, a woman is LOOKING to disqualify you basedon that first text you send a girl. Its easier for her to put her phone away, and NOT message you back. So if you send her a boring, average text that doesn't engage or excite her. Most guys send a first texts like"Hey" or "What's up" or "Nice meeting you cutie" Let me explain the huge mistake that these texts make; they force HER to come up with a good response to keep the conversation going. She's too lazy. And the harder you make it for her the less likely she'll be to respond. The first text you send a woman has ONE JOB. Put a smile on her face. That's it. Get her smiling, and feeling good. You can accomplish this by sending her a funny or flirty remark about the last time you saw her. You can make a funny guess as to what she's currently doing. There are wide variety of texts that you can send to accomplish this goal. But you MUST make her smile. 2. The second mistake that guysmake is trying to start a "text conversation" with her. Texting is not meant for long 'get to know you' type conversations. And its ANNOYING when someone keeps messaging you back with more questions forcing you to continue to type responses. The cell phone is only meant for a condensed, cooler version of real conversation. You can skip the small talk. You can skip the questions. You can skip the formalities. And instead jump right into the fun part. Because if you try to start a text conversation the same way you would a normal in-person conversation you're not going to get very far. More than likely after the first"What are you up to?" she will lose interest- and her attention will go back to whatever she was up to before she reached into her purse and pulled out her cell phone. 3. The third mistake asking for the date too soon or too late. There is actually an art to how to ask a girl out over text message. And most guys miss the mark completely. Most guys either go straight for date without re-sparking any of the good feelings she felt when you last saw her. Or they re-spark the feelings, but are afraid to pull the trigger and ask her to hang out. This is why i always recommend that your first text put a smile on a girl's face. This ensures that she is now paying attention to the next couple messages you send. And puts her in a much better frame of mind to go for the meetup. These are some tips for how to text a girl. However, its not just knowing what not to write a girl. You've also have to learn how to craft short 'punchy' messages that keep her attention. You have to know how to cram bits and pieces of your personality into the messages so that she remembers who you are, and why she was attracted to you in the first place. And you also have to know how to blur the line between getting sexual over text and being creepy or perverted. Let's face it. There really is an"art" to texting. Which you must learn. Keep it real X.A

Okay, so you've finally found a woman who really gets your juices flowing, and you've already done the nasty, but now you're worried about screwing the whole thing up.

Obviously she's attracted to you or you wouldn't be dipping into her honey pot in the first place, but how do you keep the attraction flowing? How can you keep her happy and satisfied and out of the arms of all the other guys out there who might have better relationship skills than you do? Are there any ways to ensure -- or better yet, increase -- her desire to be with you?

Fortunately, there are. Here's a list of some things to keep in mind as you're trying to make the relationship work.

1- Keep your attitude in shape Remember; you're the catch, not her. Your attitude should be that you're doing her a favor by letting her into your life, not to mention letting her have sex with you (this is always done without cockiness or arrogance). Women love confidence in men and broadcasting this kind of self-image will boost her attraction to you.

2- Always keep her guessing Make sure that you maintain contact with other women (especially good-looking women). This doesn't mean that you should cheat on her, but that you should cultivate lots of female friends and turn on the charm with other women.

When you do this, she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time. Most women are irrationally jealous creatures, so when you have a flock of lovelies orbiting you, it will fan the flames of her desire and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away.

3- Don't get sloppy Let's be honest; when you're first dating a woman, you're trying hard to impress. The typical guy will buy new clothes, shine his shoes, and keep the car slick and gleaming. But after a while -- after you start to feel comfortable -- all this goes out the window.

You trade your Pierre Cardin in for a stained T-shirt, you've got dried mud on your Reeboks, and the backseat of your car looks like an open dumpster. Don't do this. Women are obsessed with clothing and their appearance, and will instantly switch off their sex drive if you look like a slob.

Visit the gym once in a while, too, and don't forget to take a shower when you leave. A sweaty guy with a Jell-O gut and a double chin is not likely to inspire lust in his woman.

Keep your life, don't live in hers
4- Keep your own life
Women are so good at taking over men's lives that a lot of guys just give up on who they really are as soon as the girlfriend starts cracking the whip. Instead of playing ball and drinking beer, all of a sudden, it's antique shopping and sitting through chick flicks.

It's extremely important that you keep doing the masculine stuff that you like -- sports, motorcycles, hanging out with your buddies -- to keep balance in the relationship and to keep yourself from turning into a castrated wussy.

Remember; women always want everything both ways -- they want you to be intensely masculine, but at the same time they expect you to cater to them because they hold the sexual trump card.

But once you roll over and turn into a doormat, a woman will lose all attraction for you. So get your mind off getting laid and concentrate instead on asserting your masculinity. By going in your own positive direction, by doing things that are important to you, and by being a guy , she will see you as an independent, interesting and attractive man.

5- Don't put up with female crap Women will test you mercilessly to see how much of a wuss-boy you are, to see how much of their bad behavior you'll tolerate. This is nothing but pure manipulation, and every single one of them is guilty of it. Don't fall for it.

Put your foot down right away. If you let a woman get away with an inch, she'll take a hundred miles, and she'll lose respect for you as a man. Once she does that, her interest in you as a lover will plummet to zero.

You'll notice she doesn't act this way around her girlfriends (because she can't manipulate them with sex), so don't let her get away with doing it around you. Anytime you "Yes, dear," you're killing off attraction.

6- Turn on your seduction skills
Part of what got you two into the sack in the first place was your ability to charm -- to overcome female objections. This is what seduction is all about -- creating an atmosphere in which a woman will be willing to let down her guards on her "virtue."

The problem is, many guys are only into the conquest -- as soon as they storm the castle, they lose interest in continuing the battle. Or they just get bored.

But women love to be seduced -- it's part of their sexual power over a man and it makes them feel wanted. So if you'd like her to stick around for a while, make sure she knows that she still turns you on by -- literally -- charming the pants off her.

Be imaginative and stay mysterious...

Asking out a woman is usually the first and most important step
towards getting her. The problem is what do you do to maintain that
attraction? In other words, how to do create heaps of sexual chemistry
on that first date? Well first off, it's important to understand WHAT
really makes a woman attracted to a guy. Now the truth is many guys
stress out over the first date, and for good reason. Worries over what
to say or do flood the mind, making the event seem more like a chore
than a pleasurable experience. The good news is there are a number of
small techniques you can use to create LOTS of sexual tension on your
first date. So pay close attention to the following...
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Tip #1

Don't Set Yourself Up for Disappointment In other words, relax. By
conjuring up visions of
what would make the date perfect, just go with the flow. If you're
nervous, it's going to show, so take a few deep breaths and chill out.
Don't attach any expectations to the date, and you won't be
disappointed.
Understand that there is a possibility that the evening won't go as
planned, and if that happens, it's no big deal. There are other girls
and other dates to be had. Plan nothing in advance other than to have
a great time. .


Tip #2 Limit your time

A lot of guys pull out all the stops for the first date, which is the
WORST thing you can do. A first date is a lot like a job interview, in
that you're trying to determine if there's relationship potential.
With that said, save the five-star dinners for after you've qualified
her, Instead take her out for coffee/ drinks or something physical,
like a hike. Or even a quick trip to the mall.
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Tip #3 - Be in control and plan out the date

There's nothing more appealing to a woman than a man who's in control
and knows what he wants. Know ahead of time where you'd like to take
your date, and have a backup destination in case of unforeseen
circumstances. Not only will you be more attractive in her eyes, but
you'll also have the ability to limit your time as previously
discussed..


Tip #4 - Have fun and flirt

The most important element to a fun first date is the chemistry. You
want to build rapport with the woman, and the only way to do that is
to have fun. Give her "the eye," lightly touch her arm, and tease her
lightly.
By flirting and maintaining a playful attitude, you'll enhance the
sexual attraction needed to ensure future dates. People respond
directly to the energy they'r subjected to. Your aim with the first
date is to make the woman relaxed in your presence, and she won't be
able to do that if you're nervous and on edge. Instead, realize that
you're out with a beautiful woman, and enjoy your time with her.
You'll create an evening she'll never forget.


. Tip #5 - Know when to break the rules
The preceding rules should be used as guidelines, but they aren't
unbreakable. For example, if the two of you really hit it off,don't
bother limiting your time, and take her home instead. Use your own
judgment, and if you feel a rule isn't working, make an necessary
tweaks to ensure a fantastic first date. The most important element to
a successful first date is your attitude. If you relax and have fun,
your date will too. Your aim is to build a solid rapport that will
lead to many more dates to come. Use these five tips, and every first
date will be an amazing one. Finally, the key to a successful date is
knowing how to flirt.

This tricks realy works try them out and keep it real

X.A