Getting dumped is one of the worst things a guy can go through.
Recently I saw a life stress ranking list, and
having an intimate relationship
end was actually listed as more stressful than
serving a jail term.So if you're ready to turn it
around no matter how bad she
dumped you, let's get going...
The first step to getting your
woman back is to re-establish your value.
This is important because by far
the most common mistake a guy makes at the
end of a relationship is to become needy. He practically gets on his
hands and knees and begs his woman to take him
back, and unfortunately this has the exact opposite
effect of pushing her away. It's simple human
psychology, understood by any competent marketer or
salesman: if something is in-demand and you have to
work for it, you end up valuing it more.
And unfortunately, when you
become the crying man, pleading for your woman to take
you back, she doesn't exactly have to work for
you. You'll have the best success,
then, by re-establishing your value right
away by sending your ex-girlfriend a
handwritten cut-off note. ...

Simply put, you tell her that you're going to give her time and space
apart from you, you agree with the break up, and you're going to cut
off communication with her for awhile so that both of you can have
that healthy distance. You end the note by saying that something
exciting has happened in your life and you need to tell her about it
sometime. This is extremely effective because it appeals to your ex's
sense of curiosity, which is the strongest human emotion there is.
Later when it comes time to re-initiate communication with your ex,
she will be unable to resist speaking with you again. The second step
is to build your attractiveness. There are 11 traits that women are
attracted to, which I call the "Attraction Dials." Your turn the
dials, and you turn up the desire a woman has for you. These
Attraction Dials are as follows:

1. Being a Leader -- You talk and others (especially other men) listen.

2. Masculine Good Looks -- Women use the word "cute," "handsome," or
even "hot" to describe you. They compliment you on various aspects of
how you're put together such as "nice shirt!".

3. Physical Health and Strength -- You're in shape.

4. Confidence -- You move through life with self-assurance, without
fear of others judging you.

5. Being Happy and Non-Needy You have no need to pressure the woman or
to try to control her behavior.

6. Having Other Women Interested in You -- If a woman knows she's got
competition to win you, then you look that much more appealing in her eyes.

7. Being Popular -- You have a large network of people you know.

8. Being Interesting, Intriguing, Fun and a Captivating -- You bring a huge
relief to a woman's boring life.

9. Being Assertive -- You can protect those around you.

10. Making Her Laugh -- If a woman is laughing at what you say, it is
psychologically impossible for her to dislike you.

11. Having Drive -- You're ambitious and have passions you're pursuing ...


Step three is to identify the mistakes you made previously in the
relationship and learn from them so that when you have the
relationship re-run, you and your woman will stay together.
After all, it isn't any more fun being dumped a second time! I'm
drastically over-simplifying here, but the elements of a successful
relationship are:

1. You're a man who is generally dominant rather than wish-washy,
confident in himself, and an alpha male.

2. You give your woman positive emotions.

3. Emotionally, she needs you more than you need her.
(You can stand on your own two feet and don't need her to be your
psychologist or mother-figure.)

4. You have frequent and pleasurable physical relations with her.


Step four is to re-initiate communication with your woman after a full
21 days of keeping her 100% cut off from you. Then you get her to hang
out with you so you can re-attract her. In order to be able to meet
with her, make sure to let her know that you're totally fine with the
break up and just want to be friends at this point. Be totally
nonchalant and cool. You want her to wonder what's changed and what's
going on with you. Then when the two of you hang out, you turn her
Attraction Dials and completely astound her and sweep her off her
feet.