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Got Dumped by Your Girl? Here's What to Do... 7:05 AM

Getting dumped is one of the worst things a guy can go through.
Recently I saw a life stress ranking list, and
having an intimate relationship
end was actually listed as more stressful than
serving a jail term.So if you're ready to turn it
around no matter how bad she
dumped you, let's get going...
The first step to getting your
woman back is to re-establish your value.
This is important because by far
the most common mistake a guy makes at the
end of a relationship is to become needy. He practically gets on his
hands and knees and begs his woman to take him
back, and unfortunately this has the exact opposite
effect of pushing her away. It's simple human
psychology, understood by any competent marketer or
salesman: if something is in-demand and you have to
work for it, you end up valuing it more.
And unfortunately, when you
become the crying man, pleading for your woman to take
you back, she doesn't exactly have to work for
you. You'll have the best success,
then, by re-establishing your value right
away by sending your ex-girlfriend a
handwritten cut-off note. ...

Simply put, you tell her that you're going to give her time and space
apart from you, you agree with the break up, and you're going to cut
off communication with her for awhile so that both of you can have
that healthy distance. You end the note by saying that something
exciting has happened in your life and you need to tell her about it
sometime. This is extremely effective because it appeals to your ex's
sense of curiosity, which is the strongest human emotion there is.
Later when it comes time to re-initiate communication with your ex,
she will be unable to resist speaking with you again. The second step
is to build your attractiveness. There are 11 traits that women are
attracted to, which I call the "Attraction Dials." Your turn the
dials, and you turn up the desire a woman has for you. These
Attraction Dials are as follows:

1. Being a Leader -- You talk and others (especially other men) listen.

2. Masculine Good Looks -- Women use the word "cute," "handsome," or
even "hot" to describe you. They compliment you on various aspects of
how you're put together such as "nice shirt!".

3. Physical Health and Strength -- You're in shape.

4. Confidence -- You move through life with self-assurance, without
fear of others judging you.

5. Being Happy and Non-Needy You have no need to pressure the woman or
to try to control her behavior.

6. Having Other Women Interested in You -- If a woman knows she's got
competition to win you, then you look that much more appealing in her eyes.

7. Being Popular -- You have a large network of people you know.

8. Being Interesting, Intriguing, Fun and a Captivating -- You bring a huge
relief to a woman's boring life.

9. Being Assertive -- You can protect those around you.

10. Making Her Laugh -- If a woman is laughing at what you say, it is
psychologically impossible for her to dislike you.

11. Having Drive -- You're ambitious and have passions you're pursuing ...


Step three is to identify the mistakes you made previously in the
relationship and learn from them so that when you have the
relationship re-run, you and your woman will stay together.
After all, it isn't any more fun being dumped a second time! I'm
drastically over-simplifying here, but the elements of a successful
relationship are:

1. You're a man who is generally dominant rather than wish-washy,
confident in himself, and an alpha male.

2. You give your woman positive emotions.

3. Emotionally, she needs you more than you need her.
(You can stand on your own two feet and don't need her to be your
psychologist or mother-figure.)

4. You have frequent and pleasurable physical relations with her.


Step four is to re-initiate communication with your woman after a full
21 days of keeping her 100% cut off from you. Then you get her to hang
out with you so you can re-attract her. In order to be able to meet
with her, make sure to let her know that you're totally fine with the
break up and just want to be friends at this point. Be totally
nonchalant and cool. You want her to wonder what's changed and what's
going on with you. Then when the two of you hang out, you turn her
Attraction Dials and completely astound her and sweep her off her
feet.

How To Make Younger Women Chase You 6:45 AM

Does he REALLY like me... or is he just playing games, like he does
with ALL his girls? This is what should be running through her head
while you tease and flirt with her. It makes her want to keep playing
the game. Whenever she's with a guy like this, she'll want to look her
best, and act her sexiest, in order to get the confirmation she
craves. The key is to NEVER give her total confirmation. When a woman
is attracted to you, she desperately wants to know if the feeling is
mutual! You can work women into a frenzy this way...by NEVER letting
the girl know that she's "won." For this reason, you must never tell
her how long you've wanted to ask her out, admit how attracted you are
to her, or tell her how you think the two of you would be "great
together." If these sound like winning romantic gestures, turn off
your television, because you've been watching too many Hollywood
movies. Only in the movies can the dork or the shy guy win over the
hottest girl in school in the end because he makes some grand,
romantic declaration.

In reality, it's more likely that she'll regard this as weakness on
your part. (Remember, emotional STRENGTH is one of the big keys to
attraction.) Nine times out of ten, your "confession" isn't going to
prompt her to confess her own attraction to you. It will only take you
down a notch in her eyes. You are no longer an original; you are just
another guy who can't control his emotions or his libido. Play it cool
and act like nothing fazes you. You're a train moving full-steam
ahead. The choice is hers: She can climb onboard and take an exciting
ride, or you can roll without her to the next stop. Either way, you're
an independent guy, doing your own thing. It will become clear whether
she is interested in you on a sexual level.

You won't be shooting in the dark, worrying that she'll freak out if
you try to touch her. When you follow the correct progression of
steps, escalating from conversation to physical touching, you'll never
have to wonder whether she "likes you as a friend" or whether she's
interested in more. You'll know how to read her signals, and your
tactics will be gently leading her down the path to "yes"...instead of
giving her reasons to say "oh, look at the time...I should be getting
home soon."

Evaporate the physical boundaries between you by making body contact
with her. The best times to do so are when you're both laughing. Reach
over and give her a knee a light touch. High-five her and interlace
your fingers with her, then disengage. What you're doing is
acclimating her to your touch, so that it becomes something she is
comfortable with. This way, later in the night when you hold her hand,
kiss her for the first time, or initiate the foreplay that leads to
sex, she's already "warmed up" to your touch. Guys will often fail to
escalate because they don't want to be seen as too aggressive. (It's
just an excuse, really, for not wanting to risk rejection--and they're
not confident that she will agree to the escalation, because they
haven't laid the right groundwork.) If you've laid the groundwork,
made her physically comfortable with you, and built up her attraction
by framing yourself as a hard-to-get "prize," she'll be receptive when
you take things to the next level. But it's on you to lead her there.

Regards,
X.A