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5 Rules for Getting a "Friend with Benefits" 6:04 AM

It's probably the ultimate fantasy for ALL guys... You have an attractive woman in your life who is there for only one thing...
...Casual sex
When you get bored, you can make ONE phone call and a willing partner will show up at your doorstep. The best part is the sex comes with "no strings attached." You can get it without being in a relationship or showing any level of commitment. Sound like a dream come true? For some guys it's a possibility. Whether it's called "friends with benefits" or a "booty call," there will be times in your life when you want a woman for just ONE thing. Now...there are a LOT of positives for being in a committed relationship. But sometimes there will be moments when you want a woman who is only there for sex. The question is: "How can I find a "friend  with benefits?" Well, today you're going to learn five rules for getting a relationship like this.
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Rule #1-
Find a suitable woman You might think that only "promiscuous" girls have casual sex.
The truth is MOST women go through phases in their lives when they're not looking for a boyfriend. During this period all they want to do is have FUN. Your goal is simple. When you're out meeting women, look for the ones who openly talk about devoting time to their careers or how they're not looking for boyfriends  Obviously the girls who are NOT looking for a relationship will make a great "friend with benefits".
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Rule #2-
Openly discuss sex If you're looking for a temporary thing, focus on the girls who show an indication that they don't want a commitment. When you're talking to them, you want to display an open sexuality about your personality. This means engaging women in conversations which concentrate on sexual topics and playfully bantering with them. Just DON'T act like the "creepy guy" that women hate! So when I say sexual, I don't mean you make "perverted comments about her. Instead simply bring up the topic in a non-specific manner.

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Build attraction No woman will jump in the sack with you unless she finds you attractive. So when you discuss sex, make sure you're talking to her in a flirtatious manner which she'll find attractive. Simply put, a woman will only want a casual relationship if she's attracted to you. That's why it's important to know how to create that spark of chemistry.
Don't act like her buddy! Instead behave like a guy who can trigger her emotional and sexual desire.

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Set boundaries When a woman meets a guy for the first time, she'll place him in two categories: Potential Boyfriend or Not a Potential Boyfriend You probably think being placed in the boyfriend category is a good thing. But that's NOT true! Women typically hold off on having sex with guys they consider "boyfriend material." Your goal is to be perceived as a fun guy, but NOT a guy she'd want as a boyfriend.This will easily increase your chances of having a sexual relationship with her. The important thing is always emphasize your sexuality, but never act like a boyfriend. One way to do this is SPECIFICALLY mention that you're not looking for a girlfriend. Acting this way will set a clear boundary about the nature of your relationship. You're basically telling a girl that you enjoy her company, but you're BOTH free to pursue OTHER relationships.
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Rule #5-
Keep it Casual If everything goes right, you'll develop a pattern where you're steadily having sex with a woman. Unfortunatley there are a few pitfalls you need to avoid. Remember you're not in a girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic.
So it's important to do the following to keep things casual:
** Reinforce your boundaries while treating her with RESPECT
** Understand that she's probably dating other men
** Only "hang out" once or twice week
** Don't demonstrate classic "courting" signals
** Never hurt her feelings by flaunting other relationships in your life
** Make it worth her time by being an exciting AND interesting guy

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