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5 Rules for Getting a "Friend with Benefits" | 6:04 AM |
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It's probably the ultimate fantasy for ALL guys... You have an attractive woman in your life who is there for only one thing...
...Casual sex
When
you get bored, you can make ONE phone call and a willing partner will
show up at your doorstep. The best part is the sex comes with "no
strings attached." You can get it without being in a relationship or
showing any level of commitment. Sound like a dream come true? For some
guys it's a possibility. Whether it's called "friends with benefits" or a
"booty call," there will be times in your life when you want a woman
for just ONE thing. Now...there are a LOT of positives for being in a
committed relationship. But sometimes there will be moments when you
want a woman who is only there for sex. The question is: "How can I find
a "friend with benefits?" Well, today you're going to learn five rules
for getting a relationship like this.
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Rule #1-
Find a suitable woman You might think that only "promiscuous" girls have casual sex.
The
truth is MOST women go through phases in their lives when they're not
looking for a boyfriend. During this period all they want to do is have
FUN. Your goal is simple. When you're out meeting women, look for the
ones who openly talk about devoting time to their careers or how they're
not looking for boyfriends Obviously the girls who are NOT looking for
a relationship will make a great "friend with benefits".
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Rule #2-
Openly
discuss sex If you're looking for a temporary thing, focus on the girls
who show an indication that they don't want a commitment. When you're
talking to them, you want to display an open sexuality about your
personality. This means engaging women in conversations which
concentrate on sexual topics and playfully bantering with them. Just
DON'T act like the "creepy guy" that women hate! So when I say sexual, I
don't mean you make "perverted comments about her. Instead simply bring
up the topic in a non-specific manner.
. Rule #3-
Build
attraction No woman will jump in the sack with you unless she finds you
attractive. So when you discuss sex, make sure you're talking to her in
a flirtatious manner which she'll find attractive. Simply put, a woman
will only want a casual relationship if she's attracted to you. That's
why it's important to know how to create that spark of chemistry.
Don't act like her buddy! Instead behave like a guy who can trigger her emotional and sexual desire.
. Rule #4-
Set
boundaries When a woman meets a guy for the first time, she'll place
him in two categories: Potential Boyfriend or Not a Potential Boyfriend
You probably think being placed in the boyfriend category is a good
thing. But that's NOT true! Women typically hold off on having sex with
guys they consider "boyfriend material." Your goal is to be perceived as
a fun guy, but NOT a guy she'd want as a boyfriend.This will easily
increase your chances of having a sexual relationship with her. The
important thing is always emphasize your sexuality, but never act like a
boyfriend. One way to do this is SPECIFICALLY mention that you're not
looking for a girlfriend. Acting this way will set a clear boundary
about the nature of your relationship. You're basically telling a girl
that you enjoy her company, but you're BOTH free to pursue OTHER
relationships.
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Rule #5-
Keep it Casual If everything
goes right, you'll develop a pattern where you're steadily having sex
with a woman. Unfortunatley there are a few pitfalls you need to avoid.
Remember you're not in a girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic.
So it's important to do the following to keep things casual:
** Reinforce your boundaries while treating her with RESPECT
** Understand that she's probably dating other men
** Only "hang out" once or twice week
** Don't demonstrate classic "courting" signals
** Never hurt her feelings by flaunting other relationships in your life
** Make it worth her time by being an exciting AND interesting guy
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