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Have you ever gotten so fed up with
dating women and dealing with all the
crap that you just pull out of the game
entirely? You get sick of being blown
off all the time, and really sick of
never being able to reach them in the
first place.
Hey, I've been there.
We all reach a point of disgust and
anger about all the silly social rules
in the dating game and we throw in the
towel.
However, this kind of reaction implies a
few things. First off, that you're
needing a particular result in order to
keep going. Well, that's perfectly
natural. You wouldn't show up at your
job every day if you didn't get the
expected paycheck each week, now would
you?
When it comes to dating women and the
whole pick-up game, you've got to
realize that you may have to walk a
while in the desert before you find the
oasis you're looking for. Hey, if that's
the worst news someone had given me a
while back, I would have said, NO
PROBLEM! Bring it on!
Now the good news is that you canshorten the path to your oasis by being
smart about how you get women interested
in you.
So, in keeping with this, I'm going to
tell you about three attitudes that draw
women to men.
As you read these, I want you to try
something for me. No matter how
'obvious' what I might say seems, I want
you to re-think your beliefs about them,
and see if you are still, perhaps,
working under the opposite belief in
some way.
If that sounds confusing, just wait and
we'll go into it in more detail.
Let's start with things that women find
alluring. These are my top Three
Attitudes that will improve you 100+% in
the eyes of the women you approach and
date if you'll work on them.
In fact, if you really get what I'm
about to tell you, you're going to have
a problem finding time for all the women
that will want to get with you.
I'm not hyping it up here, either, dude.
I'm serious. With my Alpha hobbies,
helping you guys, and the women in my
life, I'm starting to forget to pay
bills and keep enough water in my dog's
bowl. BAD Carlos, I know.
So here are the Three Success Attitudes:
ATTRACTIVE Attitude #1 - Guys who like
themselves
Yes, even though we're men, we still
have PLENTY of things to like about
ourselves. Contrary to the popular media
that demonizes us, guys are pretty cool.
Having a pecker rocks!
I mean, let's start with the obvious
things about guys that are cool: We
invented beer and stock car racing. What
more do we have to do, after all? Yeah,
I'm sure we invented the remote control,
and probably the electric guitar, while
we're at it.
We're GUYS. We make cool stuff.
But that's not all. You see, womenreally pick up on guys who LIKE being
guys.
And not just guys who like their gender.
Women really like guys who like
THEMSELVES. It comes across in the way
we treat ourselves and the way we treat
others. If you like yourself, you
probably aren't a dick.
It's an easy deduction, because the
ironic thing about confidence and
self-esteem is that the men you THINK
might have it (i.e., Jerks) actually
DON'T have it at all. They're making up
for being horribly insecure dweebs.
Ya dig?
So the more you communicate a
self-liking, the more you're going to
cultivate a more interesting and vibrant
personality. And that "vibrant" turns
into a "vibe" that you'll get with a
woman when she picks up on it.
Just don't self-like yourself TOO much
there, spanky. Keep the hand lotion out
of sight.
ATTRACTIVE Attitude #2 - Guys who arethere, spanky. Keep the hand lotion out
of sight.
fun to be around.
And when I say fun, man, I mean FUN.
Not that you have to juggle and tellgreat jokes, but you should definitely
have a little personality to show that
gets people interested.
The easiest way to cultivate this trait
is to open yourself up to being more
PLAYFUL.
Being playful means having a slightly
childish part of you that you can bring
out on occasion to have a little fun
with women. Tease them a little. Poke
them in the ribs. Tell her she's got
cooties.
Another great way to be fun is to go
PLACES that are fun. I like meeting
women in interesting spots of San
Francisco so we can be interactive.
There's a great place here called the
Exploratorium where you get to interact
with hundreds of experiments and
scientific demonstrations - from
magnetism to music to glow-in-the-dark
bacteria. It's a hoot. And there's a LOT
of possibility for physical interaction
between you and HER there, too.
Make a list of all the cool places you
can go with her. She'll associate the
feelings she experiences WITH YOU.
Remember that.
ATTRACTIVE Attitude #3 - Guys who are
confident and go after what they want.
This is the one that a lot of guys have
a tough time with.
"What is 'confident'?" they ask.
Confidence is simply your willingness to
be who you are with no regrets, guilt,
or anxiety.
You don't care what other people think.
You're validated from within.
See, I can de fine it for you very
simply, but feeling this sensation and
demonstrating it is something a little
more complicated.
Very few of us really grew up in a way
that allowed us to develop a really good
sense of self-confidence. In most
families, we were subject to constant
put-downs and undermining comments from
our parents and siblings about our
value. We never really got compliments.
As a result, most g uys have struggled to
feel the kind of self-confidence that
allows them to have real success with
women.
And if you ask a woman what the most
attractive thing about a guy is, it's
his level of confidence.
Now, I do have a great solution to help
you with all this.
Especially your confidence.
I want to invite you to come and learn
some of the illogical, yet INCREDIBLY
EFFECTIVE and powerful techniques and
strategies that I've learned, developed,
refined over the last 5 years.
The concepts that I've just discussed
are part of what I consider to be a big
part of the "Inner Game" of dating
success.
Most guys spend almost NO time working
on their Inner Game and confidence ...
instead, they spend time learning "pick
on their Inner Game and confidence ...
instead, they spend time learning "pick
up lines" and other USELESS fluff.
If you don't have your "Inner Game"together, none of the "techniques and
tricks" will work for you. Women can see
right through them.
Once you get the right mind-set, the
world suddenly seems like a different
place to you.
In my Secrets of the Alpha Man program,
I spend several HOURS teaching you Inner
Game techniques ... I'll show you how to
overcome your self-limiting beliefs,
improve your self-confidence and
self-esteem... and get past the fears
that are holding you back from even
TRYING to go out and meet women.
If you're like me, and you've had a lot
of negative programming, then you MUST
get that stuff taken care of. It's not
going to fix itself... YOU have to do
it.
My program will show you EXACTLY how.
Oh... and it will also teach you TONS ofgreat "field" methods for approaching
women, talking to women - keeping the
conversation going - getting dates,
meeting women online, and taking things
as far as you want to go - smoothly and
easily... without rejection.
The Alpha Man knows that
self-development is the path to a better
life. It all starts with getting
educated.
Education le ads to understanding.
Understanding leads to better choices.
Better choices lead to better results.
Keep it real
X.A
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