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5 Rules for Getting a"Friend with Benefits" 9:47 PM

It's probably the ultimate
fantasy
for ALL
guys...

You have an attractive
woman in
your life who
is there for only one thing...
...Casual sex
When you get bored, you can
make ONE phone call
and a willing partner will
show up
at your
doorstep. The best part is the sex
comes
with "no strings
attached."
You can get it without
being in a relationship
or showing any level of
commitment.
Sound like a dream come
true?
For some guys it's a possibility.
Whether it's called "friends
with
benefits" or
a "booty call," there will be
times in your
life when you want a
woman for
just ONE thing.
Now...there are a LOT of
positives for being in
a committed relationship.
But sometimes there will be
moments when you
want a woman who is only
there for sex.
The question is: "How can I
find a
"friend
with benefits?"
Well, today you're going to learn
five rules
for getting a relationship
like this.
.
Rule #1- Find a suitable woman
You might think that only
"promiscuous" girls
have casual sex.
The truth is MOST women
go through phases in
their lives when they're not
looking for a
boyfriend.
During this period all they
want to do is
have FUN.
Your goal is simple.
When you're out meeting
women,
look for the ones who openly talk
about
devoting time to
their careers or how
they're not
looking for boyfriends.
Obviously the girls who are
NOT
looking for
a relationship will make a
great "friend
with benefits".
.
Rule #2- Openly discuss sex
If you're looking for a
temporary thing,
focus on the girls who
show an
indication that
they don't want a
commitment. When you're talking to
them, you
want to
display an open sexuality
about
your personality.
This means engaging
women in
conversations
which concentrate on
sexual topics and
playfully bantering with
them.
Just DON'T act like the
"creepy
guy" that women hate!
So when I say sexual, I
don't mean
you make
"perverted comments
about her. Instead simply bring up the
topic
in a
non-specific manner.
. Rule #3- Build attraction
No woman will jump in the
sack
with you
unless she finds you
attractive. So when you discuss sex,
make
sure you're
talking to her in a flirtatious
manner which
she'll find attractive. Simply put, a woman will
only
want a casual
relationship if she's
attracted to
you. That's why it's important to
know
how to
create that spark of
chemistry.
Don't act like her buddy! Instead behave like a guy
who
can trigger
her emotional and sexual
desire.
. Rule #4- Set boundaries
When a woman meets a guy
for
the first
time, she'll place him in two
categories: Potential Boyfriend
or
Not a Potential Boyfriend
You probably think being
placed in
the boyfriend category is a
good
thing.
But that's NOT true!
Women typically hold off on
having sex with
guys they consider
"boyfriend
material."
Your goal is to be perceived
as a fun guy,
but NOT a guy she'd want
as a boyfriend.
This will easily increase
your chances of
having a sexual
relationship with
her.
The important thing is
always emphasize your
sexuality, but never act like
a
boyfriend.
One way to do this is
SPECIFALLY mention that
you're not looking for a
girlfriend.
Acting this way will set a
clear
boundary about the nature of your
relationship.
You're basically telling a girl
that
you
enjoy her company, but you're
BOTH free to
pursue OTHER relationships.
.
Rule #5- Keep it Casual
If everything goes right, you'll
develop a
pattern where you're
steadily
having sex with
a woman. Unfortunatley there are a
few
pitfalls you
need to avoid.
Remember you're not in a
girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic.
So it's important to do the
following to keep
things casual:
** Reinforce your
boundaries while treating
her with RESPECT
** Understand that she's
probably dating
other men
** Only "hang out" once or twice
a week
** Don't demonstrate classic
"courting"
signals
** Never hurt her feelings by
flaunting
other relationships in your
life
** Make it worth her time
by being an
exciting AND interesting
guy