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Mind Games Women Use to Manipulate 5:38 AM

Men I'm probably NOT the first to tell you this... Women LOVE to test guys. And they REALLY like to manipulate our actions. Why? we're going to explore the reason women play mind games and how to prevent them happening in your life. As a reminder, the HIGH STATUS guys know how to spot these tests and what to do when they happen. An old buddy of mine used to  date this girl that my friends and I couldn't stand. In fact, we hardly ever saw him once he hooked up with her, because any time we wanted him to hang out, she would forbid him to come. She'd whine, give him ultimatums, and act like a complete brat until he finally gave in. In a span of a few months, he went from being a cool, fun guy to being this
pathetically whipped man who had to ask permission to do anything in his life. And for all the crap she put him through, she ended up dumping him for someone else. Of course, I wasn't surprised when this happened, because women have one common complaint about men... ...They don't like guys who they can treat like a doormat. My buddy never realized that her childish actions were ALL tests. And he always failed! So sure, his girlfriend kicked and screamed whenever he wanted to hang with the guys, but I bet she wouldn't have dumped him so soon had he stood his ground. What's the moral of this story? The answer is simple. KNOW that women will always test you. No matter how great you think a girl is, she'll test you at some point in the relationship. Expect this behavior. Don't act as though her tests are a life or death situation, because they're not. When a woman tells you that she doesn't like something it's important to figure out ONE of the following two options:
 
1)    It's a real, legitimate concern of hers (i.e. "I think you're drinking
too much and I'm worried about you")
 
OR
 
2)   It's a way to manipulate your life (i.e. "Why can't you cancel your plans to hang out
with me?") Obviously when a woman has a REAL concern about
something you do, it's important to address this
issue and listen to what she has to say. On the other hand, if you feel
she's trying to test you, then it's important to
NEVER cave-in to her childish antics. I've found that when a
woman tests me about something, I either do it more
often, or tell her that she's not allowed to
whine about it. That's it...case closed! Doing something like this lets
her know that you're a challenge, and believe
it or not, she'll work harder to gain your approval. This might be hard for some of you "nice guys" to grasp, but consider this: Most desirable women suffer from a "halo effect" that makes people treat them better simply due to their looks.
 
In fact, they're so used to getting their way,
that whenever somebody challenges this habit, they
tend to throw tantrums. (Seriously I've seen many an
"adult" woman throw a temper tantrum that would
put a five-year old to shame.) Deep down, every woman
wants a man who is in control of the situation. Of course, she's not going to
come out and say that, but there's nothing sexier
than a man in charge. It's been said that "you only
get one chance to make a good first impression." With that in mind, never
forget that the first behavior you demonstrate will
form her opinion of you. If you give in, she'll basically
view you as someone with no backbone; if
you stand up to the challenge, she'll see you for the
man you truly are. So the question is..."Why do
men fail tests?" For starters, they don't
recognize the tests. Secondly, they're afraid to call
the women on the tests. They view a fight as the end of
the world, but in reality, the worst that could
happen would be her leaving you. And if you think about it, why
would you want to be with such a drama queen after
all? I don't care HOW good looking this girl is, it's NOT worth the misery that she'll
bring into your life. I cannot stress this enough:
Don't doing anything puts you in an inferior position! Women don't respect men
who are easily controlled. Instead, combat her tests with humor to take the
sting off of your defiance. And whatever you do, don't react emotionally. From the moment you meet a
girl, she's going to challenge you. Most of the time, you won't be
able to walk up to a woman, say a few lines, and
expect her to go crazy with desire over you. If you want to maintain that
sexual attraction, then expect that she's going to test
you. Testing is done by women as a way to weed out the
winners from the losers. Early on, a lot of women
developed this skill because they didn't have time
to figure out if a guy was worth talking to. When women test you, there
are two results: You'll either pass, OR you'll fail;
it's really that simple. If you fail, then you're chances
of attracting her will probably drop to zero. Now you shouldn't be mad
that women will test you. It's the natural order of things. Consider it like any other
challenge. The important thing to remember is to not take
these tests too seriously. If you show a lot of emotions
or anger, then you've already lost. Furthermore, take the mindset
that tests are good. When a woman tests a guy, it
indicates that she has some interest in you. In a subconscious way, her
tests are done to see if you're like the other low- status guys who are boring and predictable. And if she is really interested in you, then you'll probably receive a lot of challenges. So KNOW when she's testing you and have a plan of action for what you'll do when they happen!

your life. I cannot stress this enough:
Don't doing anything puts you in an inferior position! Women don't respect men who are easily controlled. Instead, combat her tests with humor to take the sting off of your defiance. And whatever you do, don't react emotionally. From the moment you meet a girl, she's going to challenge you. Most of the time, you won't be able to walk up to a woman, say a few lines, and expect her to go crazy with desire over you. If you want to maintain that sexual attraction, then expect that she's going to test you. Testing is done by women as a way to weed out the  winners from the losers. Early on, a lot of women developed this skill because they didn't have time to figure out if a guy was worth talking to. When women test you, there are two results: You'll either pass, OR you'll fail; it's really that simple. If you fail, then you're chances of attracting her will probably drop to zero. Now you shouldn't be mad that women will test you. It's the natural order of things. Consider it like any other challenge. The important thing to remember is to not take these tests too seriously. If you show a lot of emotions or anger, then you've already lost. Furthermore, take the mindset that tests are good. When a woman tests a guy, it indicates that she has some interest in you. In a subconscious way, her tests are done to see if you're like the other low- status guys who are boring and predictable. And if she is really interested in you, then you'll probably receive a lot of challenges. So KNOW when she's testing you and have a plan of action for what you'll do when they happen!