Here's a good lesson on "emotional texting"
I think it clarifies this idea brilliantly below...
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As someone who's done every permutation of men's
dating coaching-from in person to phone to email
and Skype-I can confidently say that one of the
biggest areas of confusion is the concept of
"sparking emotions."

Guys usually mistake this concept for its extremes.

They become overly goofy, dramatic, bizarre, or
even gushy.
I understand why this is so confusing. As men, we're
not "genetically programmed" to fully understand how
to communicate in emotions.

Just like none of us are running out to catch the
latest Twilight movies or catching up on the latest
celebrity gossip, we also don't necessarily feel a
need to communicate with much emotion.

In a way, it's like learning how to write with the
opposite hand.

It feels unnatural, weird, and sloppy.

Though, if you truly want to master male-to-female
communication, learning to communicate emotionally
is one of the most important skills you need to
hone.

Lucky for all your manly men out there, I have some
good news: communicating emotionally is much more
"masculine" than you realize. That's because
"emotional communication" is intended to get a woman
feeling feminine.

"Feeling feminine."

Consider that phrase.

To get a girl to feel feminine, you don't act feminine.

No, you act masculine.

Unfortunately, most guys don't understand how to act
masculine, so they don't understand how to communicate
emotionally. And thus, most guys suck at communicating
with women.
Whether it's telling a woman that you had a "cup of
coffee brewed by the hand of God" or that you saw a
creepy old man on a scooter, you're always making
statements rather asking questions.

The statement is a perfect example of masculine
communication because it's assertive, confident, and
"dominates" a conversation.

It causes a woman to consider the statement, react, and
usually ask a question (all "feminine" responses).

One of the easiest and most effective to wordless evoke
her emotions is by using the element of surprise.

As Bobby and I point out in Magnetic Messaging, "patterns"
are often fatal to keeping the spark alive in
relationships.

If you and a woman fall into a very predictable pattern
then she'll likely stop feeling the emotions that made
her attracted to you in the first place.

Therefore, you absolutely want to avoid patterns!

Even if it's a girl you're not dating, sometimes doing
something "out of character" is the right move.

For example, I was recently coaching a guy who was
dealing with a "flake."

This guy was obsessed with trying to elicit this girl's
emotions using crafty text messages.

Now, while there's nothing wrong with that, he could do
much more "heavy lifting" by simply using the element of
surprise to his advantage.

(And no, I'm not advocating "surprising" a woman by
jumping out of a closet wearing a ski mask!)

Sometimes "surprising" her can be as simple as going
"radio silent" on her for a few weeks and then texting
her out of the blue as if nothing happened.

Think about yourself: you probably have a few people whom
you text with every few days.

Now imagine if one of those people suddenly went AWOL.

At first, you probably wouldn't notice. But after a week
or two, likely you'd start to wonder: are they okay? Did
I do something to offend them? What happened?

Then, when they suddenly text you...BAM!

It ignites your emotions!

With women, the end result is magnified.

Even if a girl isn't giving you a response, sometimes
going "silent" is what you need to do to "re-charge" her
emotions.

Moreover, sometimes not answering a text message of hers
packs more of an emotional punch than anything you could
possibly write.

Don't be like the guys who just go for the "easy way"
or the "quick fix."

Sometimes creating an emotion in a woman takes a bit of
creativity and "outside the box" thinking.

While using words is the most obvious way to spark an
emotion, it's still only one way. There is a wealth of
other ways at your manly disposal to get her feeling
"feminine."

Another "classic" phone game trick is the old "dropped
call" cliffhanger.

The concept behind this little ninja tactic is to
pretend to drop a call right as you're telling a woman a
story or she's interested in something you're saying.

Now, this "tactic" can come across very transparent and
try-hard if not applied correctly, so use caution.

Yet, the reasoning behind it is sound. You tickle a
woman's emotions and, right as you're about to give her
a "release," you cut the call short.

For those who don't want to "pretend" to drop a call, you
can simple say, "Hey, something just came up...gotta run"
and then quickly hang up the phone.

Regardless how you do it, abruptly ending a phone
conversation or text interaction is another great way to
evoke an emotional response in a woman.

As I said, use a little creative thinking to devise your
own ways to get a woman feeling feminine and emotional.

Indeed, the "tactics" you come up with on your own will
probably work the best, since they're more congruent with
your style and personality.

Ultimately, use the examples in this report to further
your understanding of emotional communication. Also, you
may want to reread some of the "key-lock" examples in
Magnetic Messaging.

With your expanded understanding of emotional
communication, you will probably see more than you did on
first reading.

Until then, keep it emotional. Keep it masculine. And
keep her feeling feminine!