Today I want to talk about a character trait
that's been attracting desirable women for
THOUSANDS of years.

This is another quality that'll make you more
NATURALLY attractive to women.

What is this trait?

It's a simple principle ~~>

Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower

Women want men to act like men, and part of
displaying your masculinity is to display courage
and confidence.

With that said, YOU have to be the one to take
things to the next level.

This means that YOU be the one to take the
initiative.

Be the one to ask her out.

Make the first move.

And act like a man who is not afraid to take
things to the next level.

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Besides being the one responsible for progressing
the relationship, a man also has to put effort
into keeping it alive.

One of the harsh realities of dating is that
women get bored...

REALLY quickly.

If you're not providing a fun, exciting experience,
then you run the risk of forcing her to find a
guy who will!

A lot of times, women will settle when it comes
time to pick a romantic partner.

Usually, this comes from a fear of being alone or
not finding a comfortable relationship.

The problem is, while they're in a stable
situation, most women secretly yearn for the guy
who can provide them with a bit of excitement.

Someone who acts like a "leader of men."

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Women want a guy who is not afraid to take action.

This is a quality that stems from the way we
evolved as human beings.

The "leaders of men" were often the most
sexually desirable.

When a woman would select a mating partner, she
would inevitably gravitate towards the guys who
were a cut above the rest... the leaders. 

So what draws a woman to a leader of a group?

Most of the time, this type of guy wasn't the
smartest, best looking, or even the toughest, but
the leader did have one quality...

He could control the actions of other men.

...

So how do you display the leadership quality?

The best way to demonstrate this trait is
through your actions.

With women, you can't tell them that you're a
leader - you have to show it through the things
that you do.

...

First off, this quality is illustrated clearly
through the way

YOU make decisions.

Whereas the inferior male waffles in his choices,
the leader in charge is decisive.

He's able to quickly access a situation and make
an instant decision.

In order to "stand out from the crowd," you should
make decisive choices and have the confidence to
stick by them.

...

Another way to show leadership is through the
way you handle social interactions.

The leader is somebody who can control a
conversation, but ensures that everyone is included.

Furthermore, a guy like this is somebody who enjoys
planning an activity or taking charge of an event.

Instead of allowing others to make decisions, the
leader is the one who everyone looks to for good
times or excitement.

In essence, he's the focal point of any interaction!

...

Finally, you can identify a leader by his body
language.

In a social interaction, he's somebody who:

*** Makes strong eye contact with everyone
*** Is the center of a conversation
*** Moves at the front of the pack as a group travels
*** Seems relaxed and casual
*** Tells interesting stories that captivate everyone's
attention

As you can see, there are a lot of qualities and
traits that capture the essence of a leader.

The important thing to remember is that you should
always be the person who is in charge of your social
circle.

...

Don't rely on others to take charge.

Instead, be the guy who everyone looks to for an
exciting experience.

To your hot-lady success,

XA

Hey, what's up,

Today I want to ask...

...have you ever been SHOT DOWN? How about REJECTED?

Were you ever DENIED? Or perhaps there was a time when you got BLOWN OUT?

You're probably nodding your head yes. Aren't you?

Well, stop nodding.

Never once were you ever "shot down", "rejected", "denied", or, the most brutal sounding of all, "blown out".

Those words are the jewels in the shit crowns of losers. Forget losers...

Losers sit around and catalogue their failings like historians of misery. Like bitter masochists, they not only continually replay their failings to themselves - they actually give their failings painful sounding names.

SHOT DOWN? How the would that feel. BLOWN OUT? What sort of agony might accompany something like that?

Guys who never experience a shoot down, rejection, denial, or blow out are true ladies' men. And you're one now, too. So you will never again suffer through the torturous phrases of the loser class.

"But Rob," you might be thinking, "This all SOUNDS nice, but rejection still hurts. I can't just decide to not feel hurt when a girl rejects me."

Okay, true. Sometimes girls are momentarily be unaware of your inherent awesomeness, and so she may act rude, shy, unresponsive, or a variety of other behaviors I like to call "RETARDED."

So I invented a term for this that perfectly encapsulates the reality of this retarded behavior:

MULLIGAN!

Yes, like in golf, this girl has just served you a mulligan. For non-golfers and space aliens, a mulligan is when you accidentally mess up a shot so you get another shot without adding a stroke to your score.

Sort of like a "do-over", but mulligan sounds funnier when you scream it in a bar.

And that's exactly what you should do.

Whenever a girl acts in a way you'd deem retarded, don't get mad. Don't get upset. Don't even get another girl. Get a mulligan.

Simply walk away then come back later and resume as if you never met the girl. Mulligan! Don't add a stroke, add a girl.

It may just seem like a funny phrase or something amusing to scream in a packed bar (and it is, trust me) but it also serves a higher purpose.

It communicates a key concept that's absolutely essential to becoming good with women: The concept of a world without dead ends.

No decision is ever final.

One minute a girl may turn her back to you, the next she's leading you by the hand to her bedroom. Female attraction is time dependent. She might love you one moment, hate you the next.

And, conversely, she may think you're the biggest creep in the world, but later fall in love with you.

Believe in the mulligan. Believe.

Because ultimately, that's the game of dating: a series of mulligans standing in between you and the girl before you're dating.

When you hit a mulligan, you've encountered an obstacle. No big deal, just remove it.

keep it real
X.A

Have you ever worked up your courage to go talk to a woman, and then you're standing there in silence, wondering what to say next?
It happens to every guy - and it happened to me quite a bit as I was trying to learn how to talk to women and meet women.
The good news is that you don't have to suffer with that uncomfortable silence anymore. In this article, I'm going to reveal 3 Secrets for How To Talk To Women.
If you use these tips, every guy around you - including your buddies - are going to envy you.

How To Talk To Women - Secret #1: Take on a Famliar Attitude

Studies have shown that a part of all human brains actually RESISTS the new and different. When you encounter a new person, your nervous system actually goes on alert, and tries to keep you from trusting and connecting with them. It takes multiple encounters with a person to finally open up and let them in.
Well, the same is true for women, who have their own "defensive shields" - yes, just like on Star Trek.
Remember all that advice you got as a kid about "stranger danger"?
Well, it's actually terrible advice, and it conditioned us to avoid meeting new people later on in life. Most guys talk to women with the attitude of a guy who is a stranger. As a result, they've silently accepted this role, and they almost seem to beg to be treated like a potential threat.
Instead, when you're learning how to talk to women, you have to assume the role of the "old friend."
Think about how you talk to a guy friend you've known for years. It's casual, laid back, and comfortable.
That's the exact same energy you want when you talk to women. They'll feel the vibe and respond accordingly. We react to people based on how comfortable THEY feel in their own skin. So just chill and treat her like you've known her for years.
And who knows - maybe you will.

How To Talk To Women - Secret #2: Ask Questions

Questions are the secret weapon of control in conversation. They allow you to steer things, and they also allow you to draw her out of her shell.
Remember, a woman is looking to feel your confidence when you're talking to her, and she's also a little nervous herself. She wants to be approved of as well. By using questions, you help her get out of her nervous mindset. You need to be confident enough for two.
Some keys to asking questions are that you need to keep them:

• Light - no asking about intimate or heavy emotional details.
  
  
• Different - Don't just ask her where she works - ask her how she feels about her work. Or ask her what she would rather be doing if she had the day off.
  
  
• Low-disclosure - don't ask her intimate questions, or questions that require her to give up personal information too quickly. The only thing you want to walk away with is a phone number or email. Any other details - like where she lives - should be considered off-limits. For now.
  
  

How To Talk To Women - Secret #3: Play With Her

The fastest way past a woman's defensive boundaries is simple - it's the same technique you used to use when you were a kid and you wanted to flirt with a girl.
Teasing.
There's a whole system I've developed for teasing women, but I'll give you the essence of it here.
You want to be playful when you're learning how to talk to women, because the one thing that brings down her guard fastest is feeling a bit of teasing energy.
Teasing communicates:

1. You're not intimidated by her. Most men are intimidated by attractive women, and it shows. This then looks like a lack of confidence to her.
2. You're playful and not deadly serious, the way most guys get when it comes to talking to women. This is usually because the only thing on their mind is not getting rejected. Which, ironically, is very unattractive for a woman to sense.
3. She has to prove herself. When you you're thinking of how to talk to women, you're probably imagining how you can prove your value to her. Again, teasing reverses this so she doesn't get the upper hand.

Remember that every chance to talk to women also gives you the chance to screen out women you don't want. A man who has standards is much more attractive to a woman.
A playful attitude means not thinking that how to talk to women means you have to be Mr. Serious, because that's a real turn-off with women. She's going to think you've got an agenda. And that's not something she wants to sense. She wants to feel like destiny brought you two together, and it will be like a romance novel or romantic comedy movie.
She really wants to have a great story about why you came together. When you meet her, that's your opportunity to create that story by giving her a fun time, and letting her spend her time wondering when she gets to feel it again with you.
And if you want to get the complete roadmap of how to go from home alone to how to meet and attract the sexy girlfriend of your dreams, then you need to learn how to talk to women with my home study program. It's fast, easy, and guaranteed to get you from no women to wherever you want to be in just a few weeks.
Date as many women as you want - for as long as YOU want.